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There’s a way out… but few guy’s know what it is.
It isn’t getting hooked up if that’s what you’re thinking.
What it IS for you is control over your own life, so YOU decide what goes where and how. Who you’re with and who you ARE when you’re with them. Get me?
Honestly, I have no sorrow for all the saps that contact me with cries about their love life, their hooking up, their lack of dating ability… if they don’t make the necessary chnages to their life to expect better dating then WHY should I give them advce that they’re never going to use?
The definition of crazy is doing the same things over and over and expecting different results.
THIS is the opportunity to stop being crazy and really get the results you want… and be a more effective man at the same time.
Do you think DATING and HOOKUPS are what “Man Transformation” is all about? If you do, I want you to get your head out of your ass and start here to get more, much more,information.
Everything you do is a reaction to an action that you have learned.
There isn’t anything you do that is a new discovery for you that doesn’t heed back to what someone else has done, said or provoked in you.
This is not a motivation issue unless you have a goal to chnage so that what you want to happen will happen automatically.
You need to discover new actions that lead to better positive rections from yourself for your better future.
The pain of feeling rejection needs to be brought down to an understandable andf realistic level.
For instance, you see a beautiful woman and consider approaching her. Then self-doubt and a fear of rejection enters your mind. You decide it would be less painful, and possibly less iating, to not appraoch her. So you don’t.
But what if you could find somenting more painful that could happen to you if you do not approach this beautiful rejection?
What if the pain of rejection was substituted for the pain of being broke.
What if you decided that if you could not muster up the courage to approach this beautiful woman you would instead give all the money in your wallet to the bartender and just go home?
Wouldn’t the fear of rejection then be lessened because of the greater fear of giving all your money away and being broke?
Behaving this way, and dealing with a greater fear than rejection, will help you to put that fear into it’s logical place and eliminate the emotional substance of that fear.
And you will begin to break your programming.
That is what Man Transformation can do for you!
The hardest thing is for a guy is not to just understand that he wants to change, to become a better man, but having the attitude and the stamina to make change happen.
In DVD #2 we’ll doscuss how to make change happen, how to set up goals and how to create an atmosphere for a support system that will help you change into a more confident man.
Understand that you have a “comfort zone” that you live in. This zone keeps you happy but also holds you back from making positive chnages to your life. Change, by necessity, forces you out of what is comfortable into a place where you can evolve and bring about positive change.
Find your new behaviors that will generate changes in this second DVD of the Man Transformation series.
