You’ve been programmed
Everything you do is a reaction to an action that you have learned.
There isn’t anything you do that is a new discovery for you that doesn’t heed back to what someone else has done, said or provoked in you.
This is not a motivation issue unless you have a goal to chnage so that what you want to happen will happen automatically.
You need to discover new actions that lead to better positive rections from yourself for your better future.
The pain of feeling rejection needs to be brought down to an understandable andf realistic level.
For instance, you see a beautiful woman and consider approaching her. Then self-doubt and a fear of rejection enters your mind. You decide it would be less painful, and possibly less iating, to not appraoch her. So you don’t.
But what if you could find somenting more painful that could happen to you if you do not approach this beautiful rejection?
What if the pain of rejection was substituted for the pain of being broke.
What if you decided that if you could not muster up the courage to approach this beautiful woman you would instead give all the money in your wallet to the bartender and just go home?
Wouldn’t the fear of rejection then be lessened because of the greater fear of giving all your money away and being broke?
Behaving this way, and dealing with a greater fear than rejection, will help you to put that fear into it’s logical place and eliminate the emotional substance of that fear.
And you will begin to break your programming.
That is what Man Transformation can do for you!
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